I just came across a survey that Spike Lee had supposedly given to several women in order to help formulate the character that later became Nola Darling in “SHE’S GOTTA HAVE IT” from Che Grand. I read through the survey and got very curious about what the answers to these questions would be 21 years after the original release of the film and the survey that created such a controversial character at the time. This is where you my loyal, beautiful, intelligent, open minded female readers and friends come in (Yes, I'm greasing you up, but I mean ever word), I would like you, if comfortable, to take the survey and if not comfortable having me know the answers came from you, you can post them as an anonymous commenter on my blog.
IF YOU ONLY WANT ME TO SEE YOUR ANSWERS YOU CAN E-MAIL ME AT GVG@IAMGVG.COM. YOUR ANSWERS WILL BE HELD IN THE STRICTEST CONFIDENCE TO NEVER BE READ BY ANOTHER SOUL, UNLESS EXPRESSLY REQUESTED BY YOU.
This survey is called: A.S.S. (Advanced Sexual Syndrome)
1. Are there any sexual acts you perform with one man and not another? Why?
2. Do you have an aversion to swallowing when a man ejaculates?
3. Do you think in time one man will satisfy you?
4. What do you look for in sex?
5. Is making love different than sex? Why if so?
6. Name some inhibitions you had to overcome.
7. Do you think you are sexually adept?
8. What would you consider a freak? Why?
9. Are you one?
10. What do you feel when you have to have it? Tense? Evil? Explain.
11. When ya gotta have it, how do you get it?
12. What do you think about a woman that masturbates?
13. Do your morals or scruples sometimes conflict with desire/need?
14. How often do you have sex?
15. Have you ever had an orgasm> How old were you? Describe it.
16. Can you enjoy sex without an orgasm?
17. Do you need outside stimuli to get yourself ready, i.e., drugs, alcohol, magazines, porno films?
18. Talk about one unfulfilled fantasy.
19. Do you feel all men are basically dogs??
20. Do you like to be dominated, or yourself take control?
21. Is there a limit to what you'll do? How far will you go?
22. Have you ever made a request to a man that he declined? What was it?
23. Have you ever had a ménage a trios?
24. Where you ever tempted to go to bed with a woman?
25. Does penis size matter?
26. Does the threat of pregnancy or disease deter you?
27. Approx. how many men have you had? Any regrets?
28. Have you ever looked for love through sex? Why? Did you find it?
29. Describe your most memorable encounter.
30. Do you like foreplay? Do enough men do it?
31. What turns you off the most?
32. Have you ever had low self esteem after sex? Why?
33. What's your favorite position? What do you find men like most?
34. Have you ever lied or faked an orgasm (moans, groans) to please your partner? Why did you do it?
35. Were you raised in a strict home?
36. Do you care if people put labels on you - loose, etc?
37. Do you find a lot of men sexually inhibited?
38. What do you find attractive in men?
39. Have you ever OD'd on sex?
40. What part of your body is on the money?
~we’re the warriors they write epics about~